1 Thessalonians 3:12 And may the Lord make you increase and abound in love to one another and to all, just as we do to you
The Lord makes you abound in His love. I never knew what love was until I met Christ. To increase doesnt mean to just add love to your life. We must decrease in selfishness. A christian must not assume that he or she can keep the garbage thats been accumulating thru the years and just add Jesus. Great news is, allowing Jesus to come in and truly being "Boss of the house" will in effect give you desire to eradicate those old carnal ways. Make sure your vertical relationship is good with God and your horizontal relations with others will be good.