Matthew 7:3 And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?
4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye?
5 Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
This is great. Jesus does not tolerate hypocrisy. We cant properly judge when we are doing the exact same things, or worse even, then our fellowman we judge. We are first to examine our hearts by Gods word, honestly assessing and addressing our issues. Then we can properly help our brother with his issue. This takes commitment on our part because its always easier to see others faults. We are not to stay silent when it comes to helping our brother, we just need to approach him in humility considering we to can fail in those areas but by Gods grace. When handling the sinful brother, you must examine yourself first. This will give you a right focus of Gods grace and mercy to offer them.