Matthew 10:39 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
Basically, Jesus is speaking about the person who seeks to be independent from God. The one who seeks to build their life alone void of God. We cannot discover our purpose in life outside of God. When we come to the end of ourselves, offer these lost, broken vessels to the LORD, we discover fulfillment and satisfaction in Jesus. We are found. The search is over. I no longer am searching the purpose of my life. Dont spent your whole life searching in all the wrong places, just to still be lost.